Saturday, July 30, 2005
sam is still alive and kickin-
but i shall let my blog rest for a while.
backk after o's!=)
charlie and the chocolate factory,anyone?
10:52 PM
be the limelight.
Saturday, July 09, 2005
while millions of people in this world are struggling to survive,you took the plunge,just for a girl who rejected you.
you are only 16,the world holds so much of great opportunities for you.Yet you decided to forsake them,just for a relationship you deemed "love".
It doesn't take a genius to realise that you are stupid,naive and ignorant.
As many should have known,a 16 year old guy commited suicide after his girlfriend dumped him.On that very same day,he jumped off from the building where his girlfriend lived in and ended his life.I ponder,what was he thinking at that critical minute when he decided to take the plunge?Was he really devastated at the loss of a girl whom he truly love and felt that it was meaningless for him to live on anymore?or is it that it was just a moment of folly and an act of anguish?
To me,losing a girlfriend/boyfriend at the age of 16 is definitely NOT A BIG ISSUE at all.Of coz,im not a person devoid of all emotions as to have make this statement.Who in this world would not feel the sadness of losing someone you have spent your time with,furthermore, a person you have once entrusted your feelings upon.However,i personally feel that there are many solutions to this problem or should i interpret in this way:It was not a problem in the first place!
When a relationship turns sour and unfriendly and the situation had deteriorated to such a state that there is no room for any reconcilement,anyone would have initiated a breakup.It might have been a major blow to many but at the same time a relief too.If his girlfriend had wished to patch up with him,it appears to me that their relationship would not sustain any further at all.The reason is clear:How is it possible for a relationship to heighten and prosper if both sides are not willing to compromise with one another?The key point is;to use emotional blackmail such as to threaten to kill oneself is already a big mistake he had commited.
Many might have felt sorry for him for dying at such a young age.However,i questioned.
Who is the real victim in this whole incident?Well,its his parents,the folks who had relentlessly brought him up to who he is today and yet he was to end the life his parents had bestowed upon him for a girl who had just known him for 9 months.
He took it upon himself.
who is to blame?
8:57 PM
be the limelight.
Saturday, July 02, 2005
chma was splendid,impressive,an eye opener!=)although the faulty aircon was quite a turn-off,it was a well-organized production afterall.Three cheers!
ha.i was such a despo yesterday.shan't elaborate.
thanks for those who had made my day ytd!=D
oh yah.mom,i have no idea what are you worrying so much about.to think i was even panicking about how i was goin to get a scolding from you when i reach home during the performance.
i lead a sad sad life.
I HATE YOU>forever friends.
9:38 PM
be the limelight.